Life does not go on at the same pace, everyone is exposed to crises, and times of crises are very critical and revealing at the same time, as it serves as a tool for evaluating relationships between people.
And times of crisis for the spouses are a driving force for the relationship, either making it stronger, or building within it barriers that push it toward the abyss, depending on your ability to act wisely and provide the necessary support to your husband, or vice versa. Here are 5 things your husband needs from you during a crisis.
1- keep calm
Panic is one of the worst things that a person can do to his partner during a crisis, so control your emotions and keep calm, so you can convey calm to your husband, which will help you both make better decisions.
2- trust him
Trust is the key to the success of marriage in many ways, and it is gained over time, but trust can also decrease quickly when going through a major crisis, but showing your trust in your husband during a crisis will make him feel respected, provide him with energy and enhance his courage in facing the crisis because he knows that his partner trusts him.
3- Give him the opportunity to express his fears and doubts
In general, men have a hard time expressing their deep feelings. Sharing their fears and doubts equals showing weakness for them. But you can help your husband deal with what is in his heart, and rest assured to share it with you, by accepting him when he has the courage to show his weakness.
4- Don't assume he's angry with you
It is normal for your husband to feel frustrated and angry when he is going through a major crisis, and he may appear angry and frustrated, so do not assume that he is angry with you, and deal in a defensive manner that increases his frustration.
5- Remind him of your faith and hope
In a time of crisis, your husband needs to feel that you are not desperate, so show him your faith and hope, he will derive these positive feelings from you.